Moms Come Together for Serena Williams. How's Your Mom Guilt? Tell Us to Win a $25 Gift Card

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Most working (and even non-working) parents know the disappointing feeling of missing one of their baby’s milestones. Whether it be their first word or first step, it can be hard to be present for these unpredictable moments. Tennis star and new mom Serena Williams recently joined the working parents’ club when she tweeted about missing 10-month-old daughter Alexis Olympia Ohanian Jr.’s first steps.

It seems that all moms have some guilt about something they did or didn't do. What's yours and how do you deal with it? Tell us below and you'll be entered to win a $25 Amazon gift card. 

Today reports about Williams’ recent tweet and the large community of moms that came together to send the tennis champion an uplifting message about parenthood and what it means to be a working mom. Williams recently tweeted, “She took her first steps...I was training and missed it. I cried.” Instead of chastising the new mom, others on social media stood up to assure Williams that being a working parent can be complicated - but still very rewarding.

One user who related to Williams tweeted, “I missed a bunch of firsts while I was at work. I hear ya, mama. It’s not easy. But our girls see us out there grinding + living our dreams and that’s got to mean something. Good luck in London - my daughter and I are both rooting for you!” Another user told the story of how she even brought her baby with her to work and still missed that milestone. She tweets, “I took my 1st child all the way to Israel on a trade mission. During a meeting I heard cheering out in the waiting area .... Yup, staff and husband and assorted strangers saw her 1st steps. It all turns out okay. #Workingmomsrock”

And even stay-at-home moms know it’s not always possible to be there for every single new thing your baby does. One mom to twins tweets, “I'm a housewife and was in the next room and I missed it. With both of the twins. Please don't feel bad. Be happy for her and be ready for the running after her.” Hopefully, those loving messages helped to clear some of the mom-guilt Williams was probably feeling after missing her daughter’s first steps.

Do you have mom guilt? (What mom doesn't?!?) Comment below with your story - and you'll be entered to win a $25 Amazon gift card.

Don't forget to share any lessons you've learned that can help others feel better about their experiences in parenting.

 

*One lucky commenter will be chosen at random to receive a $25 Amazon gift card. Giveaway is open through July 29th, 2018 to U.S. residents at least 18 years of age. Entrants must be a member of SheSpeaks. If you are not a member, click here to join. Winner will be notified by email.

Update: Thanks to all who entered! Congrats to our winner, SheSpeaks member Modelc96.

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by CrunchyBeachMama | Erie, CO
Jul 13, 2018

letting them play too many video games

by jannie999 | BROOKLYN, NY
Jul 13, 2018

My guolt is being too tired to take my kid outside more often

by shantilia | Massillon, OH
Jul 13, 2018

I am a widow SAHM with a 4 year old. I have MDD/GAD and mom guilt is felt everyday because I don't think/feel I'm the best mom he can have because of my condition :( I used to play blocks and stuff a lot but for the past year I don't. I'm also receiving SS survivor benefits so to make sure we are ok I do online surveys for a little more income, which leaves me on my laptop on/off daily. People say I'm a good mom but I don't feel it :(

by redneckwoman | RIB LAKE, WI
Jul 13, 2018

I usually just feel guilty about being a stay-at-home mom. So many people look down on those of use who make the choice to stay home and raise our kids. I've got plenty of time to work though, after my son is grown.

by mara83 | West Richland, WA
Jul 13, 2018

Feeling guilty that I am not that patience with my kids!

by JulsB20 | WAUKEE, IA
Jul 13, 2018

Once I put the wrong team's schedule on our calendar so my son missed a football game because I thought it was at a different time.

by Katypugz | Marlton, NJ
Jul 13, 2018

Yes all the time I feel like I'm so busy never have time play with the kids

by peachykeen817 | WACO, TX
Jul 13, 2018

I'm looking at getting a job, and my kids have been telling me how much they'll miss me while I'm at work (I've been a stay at home mom for pretty much their whole lives). It's hard, but I remind myself that the money will help pay off debt, which will result in a better life for all of us.

by user2626 | Eugene, OR
Jul 13, 2018

Mine is making every moment count! I've learned that even routine moments can build relationships.

by SIMPLELIfehomestead | EL DORADO SPG, MO
Jul 13, 2018

I missed out on a lot of youngest child's milestones. I was diagnosed with chronic migraines andI suffered with migraines at least 4 days a week. This left me incapable of being there for her. She is now 16 andI have spent years of " mom guilt " I had to commit to understanding that this wasn't a choice I made, instead it was something I couldn't control so the guilt made no sense. She loves me and is very understanding..

by lisahillberg | SAN ANTONIO, TX
Jul 13, 2018

My guilt is that son is is Soecial Needs & though my hubby and I know it's not our fault that he was born this way. We can't help but feel guilty. :(

by peter26 | Passaic, NJ
Jul 13, 2018

No mom guilt here, but my mom guilts me because there are no grandkids.

by tweedy | MERRILLVILLE, IN
Jul 13, 2018

Spending more time than I did because of working

by bechug | COLORADO SPGS, CO
Jul 13, 2018

As a stay at home mom, my mom guilt is usually about not having enough money for fun activities or vacations.

by kimcres | Valdosta, GA
Jul 13, 2018

When my children got hurt right in front of me (once my husband was right there, too) and resulted in ER trips. Yuck! There was no way for me to prevent it, but still the guilt...

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